In the end, we had sixteen failed IVF transfers, four failed IUI transfers, three miscarriages and two international surrogacy experiences (the United States and Canada). But we are grateful to now have our beautiful son Spencer.
Infertility can be brutal, raw, overwhelming, and often lonely. It’s frequently misunderstood. But for anyone struggling with infertility, you are not alone. I know I often felt that way. But there are many of us out there. Find those people. Talk to them. Lean on them. Surround yourself with love and support. Don’t suffer in silence.